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WHEN CANCER STRIKES …
“Mr. Walsh, we are
sorry to tell you that you have
two
different types of malignant cancer!”
The oncologists’ words last year hit me like a ton of
bricks. My reaction was like many who
are told such dreadful news, “You must be mistaken.
Cancer? I can’t have cancer.” But the
tests clearly showed that I did, in fact, have two types
of malignant cancer: prostate cancer,
and a new type of highly-aggressive skin cancer.
At the time, a biopsy test went terribly wrong and I
nearly died with a fever of 107 from
urosepsis ravaging my body. The oncologists then said it
was very likely that both cancers
had spread, and so, my prognosis wasn't very promising.
I thought, “How can this be
happening to me?” In a just a few days, I went from
simply not feeling well to being seriously
ill, literally at death’s doorstep with an ominous,
painful road ahead.
And so, I
immediately did the most important thing we should do in times of
serious
illness, I
received the Sacraments of Reconciliation, Annointing, and the
Eucharist.
No matter what lay ahead for me, I remembered that our
belief in Respect Life that ALL LIFE,
from the womb to natural death, is still a gift from God
for all eternity – even physical life that
is burdened with cancer and other debilitating illnesses.
This helped me to resist wallowing in worry or self-pity,
and instead, I resolved that I was NOT
going to allow my cancers to define who I am, or to
hamper the rest of my days on earth.
Rather, I decided to pick up my cross of cancer and carry
it the rest of the way - not bemoaning
my fate, but rather choosing to make the best of my lot
and to thank God every day for the gift
of life He blessed me with. I began by telling everyone
that I only had two cancers ... not three.
As I met other patients in cancer waiting rooms and
treatment centers, I encouraged them to
include God in their fight against their cancer. I
reminded them what Jesus said, “With God all
things are possible.” It was so refreshing to see how
well other cancer patients responded,
especially when they knew I also had cancer. I
encouraged them along with all my family
and friends to offer Mass, the greatest form of prayer,
for all cancer patients.
By the way, at the end of last year, following a number
of operations
and countless Masses,
I was told by the oncologists at Sloan Kettering, Cornell
and Columbia cancer centers where
I was being treated as a unique case, that they were
amazed to discover that they could not find
any more cancer anywhere in my body. All the tumors were
gone ... from both malignancies.
As soon as you or
someone you know becomes seriously ill, make sure you have a priest
come to administer the Sacraments, attend and offer a
Mass, and pray with faith that God
will do whatever is best. As Jesus said,
“With God all things are possible.”
Pope Says All of Us Must Safeguard and Respect Life
Earlier this
year, Pope Benedict XVI said, "I readily associate myself wth the
Italian bishops on their message, ‘The force of life, a challenge in
poverty'. In this current period of economic difficulties, the effect
of those mechanisms which produce poverty and create deep social
inequality becomes ever more dramatic, injuring and offending life, and
striking especially at the weakest and most defenseless.”
“This situation
calls on us to promote integral human development in order to overcome
want and need, and above all to recall that the goal of each man and
woman is not wellbeing, but God Himself, and that human life must be
defended and supported at every stage. No one, in fact, is master of his
own existence; rather, we are all called to safeguard and respect life -
from the moment of conception until natural end."
The Pope
expressed his appreciation for all those who work in the service of
children, the sick and the elderly, and he encourages the activity of
those who are committed to supporting life and the family.
If You - or
Someone You Know - Has a Crisis Pregnancy
There
is free, confidential, compassionate help
at: The Life Center of
Long Island,
1767 Deer Park Ave., Deer
Park, NY 11729, 631-243-2373, or toll-free 24 hours
every day of the week at:
1-800-395-4357:
Pregnancy test kits; crisis
intervention counseling
Pre-natal and post-natal
guidance
Sonogram by a licensed
physician when necessary
Baby furniture, cribs, car
seats, clothing, diapers
Help linking to community
resources: maternity housing, continuing education,
and job opportunities
Life ... what a beautiful choice.
Bob Walsh,
Director of Respect Life Ministry
631-243-6326,
email:
walsh516@aol.com
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